21 November 2009

Here we go again!



1. Has anyone in your life talked in their sleep?

Not that I've noticed, though I've been told that I do it myself. I can't imagine what would be so almighty interesting that someone would bother to stay up and hear it, though. Sleep is important!

2. What do you like about fall?

This might sound weird, but... I think I like autumn (not fall, thanks, that's a different word) because everything's dying. I know, that makes no sense, but... it's just the smell of the leaves falling off of the trees, crunching under your feet... that and the cold weather. I don't really understand it, myself, how I can take pleasure in the death of something, but then I'm a weird sort of chick.

3. Do you have an addictive personality?

God, yes. I don't think I even need to go on about this question, that just says it all right there.

4. Who was the last person to do something extra special for you?

(think) Besides myself? I like to think that my friends being in my life is pretty special all by itself, especially when I've put them through such hell in the last few years. No one really needs to do anything in order to be considered special to me, you know what I'm getting at?

5. Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?

If they meant enough to me, I'd try. But I admit that I'd probably have a really, really hard time ever trusting them again, which would ultimately mean the death of the relationship. But I'd try, if I loved them enough.

6. Are you happy with where you are in life?

I'm slowly getting to the place that I want to be. I'm not completely all the way there, and won't be for some time, but right now life is better for me than it ever has been, and that's saying something.

7. Do you believe that you can change someone?

Not anymore. That was a lot of my problem for a lot of years, that I thought I could change other people to what I wanted them to be, and the truth is that you just can't. It is what it is, to use a very now-cliche phrase. I'm slowly learning to accept the fact that I just need to take people for who they are. It's a good feeling, though.

8. Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?

Yes. But eventually the feeling goes away. It might take months or years... but I eventually do learn acceptance, as sad as it might be.

9. Would you ever fight someone over your significant other?

If they meant enough to me, I would, but not that many people mean that much to me that I'd stoop to physical violence.

....y'know... this meme isn't bad, I think I might stick with this one. The questions are at least thoughtful. Hmmm...

Non-meme related: as you've probably noticed, I've done some more things to the blog. I've changed the background (not sure if I'm going to keep it for good yet), I've finally fixed that ugly-assed header, and I've included some new things on the sidebar...

Damn, I'm proud of my abilities, heh.

2 comments:

Jayne d'Arcy said...

Nice to meet you! I like your reason for liking autumn as opposed to fall. Cool.

Here's my late Saturday 9.

Oh! I like your blog design. It looks good and loads pretty quickly.

Cheryl Chamberlain said...

love the answers. probably the only one that stuck out to me is fighting over your sig other. i may fight verbally, but to me, i fight for no one. i tired of that crap years ago. if they don't know where they belong.. f*ck em.. lol

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